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You're not alone. 2.2 million guys get married every year.

They have the same fears, doubts, and questions.

They're in the same (sinking?) boat. Use this to your advantage.

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"I'm jealous... of her ex-boyfriends. And their sex lives. Help."

A lot of guys feel this. Not a lot of guys admit it. We break it down.

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"The Proposal: How Do You Surprise When She's Expecting It?"

Maybe she already knows the plan. How do you still keep the suspence? We have a plan.

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"What counts as cheating at a bachelor party? Lapdances? Kissing?"

There’s an old saying about the distinction between art and pornography: maybe you can’t define pornography, but you’ll “know it when you see it.”

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"I'm Giving the Best Man Toast. How Can I Subtly Refer to His 'Crazy Times?'"

He gets that you can't explicitly mention ex-girlfriends, strippers, or cops. But he wants to do it subtly. Is it possible?

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"How Do I Choose Between DJs?"

So you've settled on a DJ, as oppposed to a band.  Some things to keep in mind...

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“I want to propose to my man. (I’m a woman.) How should I do it, or should I?”

The question enthralled us. In 18 words, you sent a bolt of lightning to the very heart of gender roles, stereotypes, and cultural norms. It's such a simple question with such a thorny, unsettling answer...

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"When I propose to my girlfriend, should I do it earlier in the evening or late at night?"

The classic question. Do you let the tension build, or should you do it early so you can soak in the new-engagment joy?

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"Is it Dumb to Have Multiple Best Men?"

"I have 3 best friends that I'm trying to decide on a best man.  All 3 of us go back to elementary school together and have grown up through the years.  I don't know how to choose one and not sure if I can, any one of them one be a great best man...would it be dumb to have 3 best men?"

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"I'm a virgin. And a chick. What should I do for groom on wedding night?"

We didn't exactly create The Plunge as a forum for virgin women, but hell, we're here to help...

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"I'm 17 and getting married. Should I get a prenup?"

Spoiler alert: They're not gonna like our answer...

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"Should I try and get her to sign a Prenup?"

Do you really want to go there? Remember, negotiating a prenup will shatter the romance. Posion trust. And piss her off. Is it worth it?

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"Engraved bottle of Scotch. Good groomsmen gift?"

No. But not for the reasons you might think...

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"My brother is hijacking the bachelor party. WTF?"

Maybe you have one idea for your bachelor party... And your best man has something else entirely. How to broker the peace?

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"I have to choose between 12 groomsmen. How do I break ties?"

Arugably the hardest job of the groom: picking between best friends. Some tie-breaking solutions...

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"My groomsman quit. What do I do?"

Damn. We're supposed to be above these petty fights. Sometimes, though, it happens. This is how you damage-control.

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"Can I use a girl as my Best Man?"

Tradition, friendship, jealousy, it's all there...

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"She only wants to have sex once a month."

And no... he's not already married.

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"Our sex life died. How do I get it back? FAST!"

If that question had a silver-bullet answer, then we'd shut down this site, collect our billions, and spend 16+ hours a day shattering bedposts.

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"Should I give up alcohol for my woman?"

Warning, warning, warning, warning...

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"I Got a Lap Dance, and She's Pissed. Help."

This guy thought his fiancee was cool with him getting a lap dance. She wasn't. Oops! Now she's pissed. How can he recover?

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Forums

We know how it goes. When you’re at the bar with your buddies, you can’t really ask them questions about your engagement, your fiancée, or how to deal with the annoying frickin’ wedding planner. For your real flesh-and-blood friends, those topics are taboo. So get anonymous. With The Plunge Forums.

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