The size of your guest list is the one variable that will make or break your wedding's budget..so here's our overriding principle: don't be afraid to be a jerk.
Here's the thing about wedding planning: it kinda sucks. It's frivolous. It's stressful and wasteful. You will soon feel that no one is on your side. That's where we come in.
These boring, trite, melba-toast retorts will help you deflect an impertinent question or wiggle out of any jam, no matter how uncomfortable. Learn them. Memorize them. Use them. They're your friends.